There are all the horror stories of one night stands and how they will forever tarnish your integrity. We bet no one has told you why you should have a one-night-stand. “But what?! That’s an abomination! Girls are not allowed to do that!”
It’s the 21st century and women have just the same amount of rights as men do to have a one night stand. According to the study by Match.com, out of 1000 people who are single, 54% of them had a one night stand in 2012. Don’t worry about all the stuff about tarnishing your reputation, or about how it’s “unnatural” for women to do that kind of risque behaviour. If you’re surrounded by close-minded people like that, then it’s time for them to grow up. Surround yourself with understanding people. Everyone who hasn’t had one has probably at least considered it.
If you ever do have one, make sure to be careful and to exercise caution, including but not limited to getting a new condom (not one that has been left in his wallet for more than a month), and choosing the right place (preferably your place, or have your friend know where you’re going exactly). With that being said, having a one night stand can be a great experience!
1. You never have to see him again
You don’t want to see a one night stand other than the actual night of doing the deed. Want something quick and no commitment? A one night stand is your best bet. You don’t have to settle down, or be with someone you’re not truly interested in. And if the sex is bad, you never have to face that again *woosh*. If you keep it on the down-low, not even your best friend has to know about what happened.
2. It’s a great way to de-stress
Stressed out by everything around you and want to get away from it all? Sex can be quite the stress re-leaver. You can, for one night, take your mind off of everything you hate at work or in school.
3. It can be very exciting
Different is exciting. You don’t know what to expect and the foreplay can be even more incredible as the actual doing it. If you don’t know someone, you don’t know their habits or their tendencies. They can even surprise you with some moves that you’ve never encountered before!
4. There’s no need for kisses or cuddling
Screw the lovey-dovey. You just want it down and dirty. If you’re not in the mood for a relationship, then with a one night stand, you can get the intimacy without the “oh I love you’s”. Being in a relationship can be emotionally draining… so say goodbye to that part and focus on the fun stuff.
5. The sex can go as intense as you want it to
Don’t be afraid of demanding what you want. With a one night stand, you can be as dirty as you want without them thinking you’re crazy. Even if they do think you’re crazy, who really cares? Try out something you’ve wanted to do before that you’ve been too shy to ask! Explore your own body and see what makes you happy (instead of trying to please the other person all the time).
6. Great boost for self-esteem
They picked you didn’t they? Neither of you would be in this situation if you didn’t find the other even slightly attractive. Hey, you got something going on for you! Take this as a self-esteem booster.
7. You get to be more open
You become more open-minded, and more open to the thoughts of sexuality. This can be a great experience physically as well as mentally. One night stands do change people, and we’re sure you’ll have a great time laughing about it years down the road.
Have you ever had a one night stand? How did it go?
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