Many of you ladies are probably wondering what Cuffing Season even is. Well ask yourselves this, recently have you been getting the check up “Hey, how you been text?”, the “Let’s grab some drinks soon,” text, or the thirsty “You look great! It’s been a while.” Cuffing season is the time when males say goodbye to the freedom of random summer hookups and nights FTB, and prepare for a cold long winter. Right now is the time when guys are deciding who will be the girl they spend the frigid winter months cuddling up with. So ladies, now is the time for you to play.
Follow these tips for so you don’t have to use Craigslist for a successful cuffing season.
Options, options, and more options
Just like how the guys are in “scout and approach” mode, you should be too – the scout part. Don’t commit to the first one that tries to cuff you. See which guys you are most interested in. Maybe even show a little bit of interest in one. Since guys are most thirsty between the end of September to the end of October, make sure you give yourself time to choose wisely. Do not settle for what you don’t want just because of the fear of loneliness. Meet people, go on Tinder, go to a bar. This is the time when the most choices are available.
Find the Connection
While you are talking to different guys, remember that the end goal for this is someone that will make you the warmest during the winter months. Find out who you have a connection with, who will treat you the best, most of all, who is presentable enough to bring home for the holidays. Let them take you on dates. Find out who is the most willing to work for you.
Choose Your Cuff
By mid October the latest, you should choose who you’re going to be cuffed to. Cuffing season waits for no one, and you don’t want to have the thirsty lazy guys trying to come for you. Make sure your cuff is suitable to your standards. Remember, this guy is your winter boyfriend, so don’t choose someone who is going to piss you off and annoy you.
Enjoy Cuffing Season
Cuffing season is a good time because you are with somebody who is there for the same reason. Bring them to family dinners, make them take you on cute dates. Maybe you guys are strictly hook ups or cuddle buddies. There is nothing better than having someone to call when you just want to cuddle by the fire! Make the most out of cuffing season.
Be Prepared to Part Ways
Set out your boundaries at the beginning. Make sure you both want the same thing such as knowing that as soon as the double digit weather hits, this is over. Obviously things can get complicated because feelings may get involved by one or both parties. Just make sure you guys are always communicating and make sure you choose what’s best for you. Don’t be that crazy girl that get’s done wrong by cuffing season. Not saying a relationship can’t come out of this, just be sure not to expect one.
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