And this is how it usually happens: you have a great conversation via text. The green (or blue) bubbles pop up, you flirt, you carry a “how’s your day” conversation, and it’s a constant back and forth of he-said-she-said (but in a good way).
And then it stops. Bye bye text notifications, hello absolute silence. But while you sit there agonizing what went wrong (and what the hell did I say, do I sound like a dork?) here’s how you should deal when he doesn’t text back.
Check your phone every three seconds
Because maybe if you stare at it hard enough he’ll get your telepathic “respond-to-me-vibes” and shoot you that reply you’re casually waiting for.
Text him a bajillion times
When he doesn’t text back, it’s up to you to fill that void. What you put in, you’ll put out – so go ahead. Text him fifty times if he doesn’t reply: one word, a lame sentence, a question that was irrelevant to the topic. Keep shooting those messages off and make it rain with your persistence.
And remember to be passive aggressive
“Oh I love absolute silence.”
“Did you die?”
“Noah wrote Allie 365 letters, you can reply.”
Pick your poison, but make sure he knows exactly what you think about this lack of response. But still be nice about it, because how else could he like you if you were crazy and clingy?
Creep his social media movements
When he doesn’t text back, it’s time to go all Nancy Drew. Is he online on his Facebook or Instagram or Twitter? If he is, go ahead, go kamikaze on his ass because how dare he ignore you!
No but honestly, truthfully, let it go
In the words of Elsa, just let it go. The cold (shoulder) shouldn’t bother you anyway.
Not everyone is an avid texter (your thumbs need a break sometime).
So when he doesn’t text back: go out, do some work, be productive, enjoy your free time where your face isn’t glued to your phone screen. Just go and live life.
The world’s going on outside, so don’t miss out (like he’s doing by not texting you, let’s be real here).
How do you deal when he doesn’t text back?
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